ips for TeensTeen dating can seem like a game that no one ever wins. The truth is, very few people actually do. There are tons of explanations for how hard it can be, but one of the biggest reasons is confusion. There are two basic types of relationship: affection-based and convenience-based. Neither is better, but it’s important to know which one you want before going looking for the right guy, or else you’ll just end up with a bunch of people you never really wanted to be with in the first place.


People who want affection-based relationships usually want someone to be a soul mate, and want to know everything about that person… the good and the bad. The type of love that exists after the excitement wears off is a lot like the love between a mother and child, or between close brothers or sisters.

People who want convenience-based relationships usually look for a person who can fulfill their needs at the present time. These people don’t necessarily want a long-term relationship, they want someone compatible, and who has similar interests. For example, you might want an outgoing guy who isn’t afraid to dance because you like clubbing.