I am the type of person that uses comparisons...compare a “lover” to a “rapist”. A lover will wait for an invitation to proceed when the emotions turn physical and then sexual. A rapist will sexually take what they want by force.

You can spot an emotional rapist by the way they force their emotions on you. They are the ones that swear their undying love and devotion to you almost immediately. They will also try and make you feel guilty if you don’t feel the same way.

You can spot an emotional rapist when they try their best to seize and take your feelings by force!

They think if they keep flooding you with their love you will love them back. You are unable to make them realize that you don’t know them well enough to commit to a relationship. Not an emotional one...not a romantic one and not a physical one!

At this point they will usually pout...they will act so rejected...like they have just lost their last friend on the planet.

Once you have determined you are dealing with an emotional rapist? Save yourself a lot of time and a lot of aggravation by ending all communications immediately! They are leeches and survive at other’s expense. Slam the door, and lock it!